Every boy and every girl is a world, a phrase that you and I have heard hundreds of times and that is absolutely right in the world, right? However, as a mother of two girls, I can't help but think that there are a number of things that only mothers and fathers of girls understand. Don't get me wrong or think that I'm going to talk to you about topics, my idea is rather to tell you those little details that only those of us who have daughters see in a special way.
Category Be mothers and fathers
From the first time I heard it, it is a subject that has caught my attention. The new educational currents argue that to have a good learning we must unlearn. Well, I am convinced that this principle can also be applied to the education of families, and perhaps I have found a way here that I would like to share with you.
My hard house cleans what it takes for children to go through it. No matter how much you collect, it always feels like a battlefield. No matter how hard you clean, there are always fingerprints on windows, chocolate stains on the sofa, or tiny pieces of paper all over the floor. So I spend the day cleaning and collecting, and in the end it always seems like I haven't done anything.
Educating a child is not easy. It is something that you already knew before becoming a father or mother, but that you verified for sure once your little one arrived in this world. First it is to give him all the care he needs as a baby and then to know how to educate him and guide him on his way as he grows. Am I doing well as a parent?
What are those universal goals that all parents should set for ourselves? Of course, we must include the care and love of children above all else, respecting them, teaching them everything they need to learn ... However, I am referring to goals about raising children a little more. concrete, those that we carry in our hearts and that to make them come true we have to put all our effort.
We have all done it at some time ... Your children do not stop asking you something, no matter what. You've had a tiring day and you have a thousand and one things to do, but they keep insisting. They insist so much that in the end you choose to promise the first thing that comes to your mind, without really thinking about what you are doing.
The best way to ensure that we are good fathers or mothers is not to be the perfect mothers or fathers, but to be happy mothers or fathers. And this is all that our children need from our fatherhood and our motherhood. Because if we are not happy, we will not be able to educate children from love and respect.
All parents raise our children the best we can and we usually do our best to do it, but that does not mean that we are not wrong (in fact we do it thousands of times). Therefore, it does not hurt from time to time to review the way we raise our children. These are the 11 mistakes parents make when we forbid things to children.
& 39; At your age, my parents didn't give me money like we give you & 39 ;; & 39; My parents didn't give me permission to go out, like we do with you & 39 ;; & 39; I only had a couple of sweaters and you don't stop buying clothes & 39 ;; & 39; You're on the street all day, I used to help my parents at your age & 39; ...
The game gives us the opportunity to accompany our children in the development of communication and language. Through play, children learn to interact with us and with other people, and what is most fascinating about this process is that it occurs incidentally, that is, naturally. Without their realizing it, they are practicing motor, language, cognitive, sensory skills and, while this is happening, they are having fun.
It's my birthday soon and I've decided to do something special. It is not that it is a round date - not at all, I am 44 years old - but I think I am in a vital moment of my life in which I need to do something for myself, so I have organized a weekend outing with a night out of home with my friends.
I am a mother of two children, but I am also an aunt, of two 10-year-old twins and a three-month-old baby. What is the difference between being a mother and being an aunt? Well, for me, and surely for you too, the difference is little. In both cases you give the best that is in your heart. However, I cannot get the phrase out of my mind that says that for a child their aunt plays an essential role in their life.
Couples worry about a thousand things at once when they become parents: food, clothes, toys, a safe environment, a good future school for their children ... Things that facilitate their development, however, they tend to forget that they and their way of interacting at home are the first thing that children learn when it comes to facing the world.
When we are mothers, we always tend to live one step ahead of the rest. To look to the future and to worry about things that will still take a long time to come. Surely, at some point in raising your children, you have looked them in the face and thought about the moment when they pack their bags and close the door of your house forever!
Being a mother and being a woman at the same time, what a dilemma! But here is the mistake, in raising these two concepts separately and as if one had to choose between one and the other, when this is not the case. Being a mother today and finding balance with your children and with yourself is possible. We just have to get rid of the oppressive feeling of guilt and do things because we feel them and not out of obligation.
The other day a mother told me when we were waiting at the school door for our children to come out: & 39; What is it that you say to yourself at the end of the day? & 39; It was a question that made me think a lot because, although I hadn't realized it until now, there are a series of phrases that I repeat to myself when I go to put my children to bed.
Would you like us to play the game of & 39; I never ... & 39; together? We sure have a fun time and it also helps us clarify a lot of ideas. The game consists of making a list of those things that you said you would never do as a mother and that now, that you are a mother, you do them over and over again.
There are parents who make the mistake of giving their children what they did not have, but behind this behavior there are many dangers. Problems of frustration in the child, of feeling pressured, of preventing them from choosing their destiny. Parents must be realized by themselves and not through their children.
There are phrases and words that we have all heard hundreds of times but that, until you are a mother, do not acquire the meaning that really corresponds to them. It also often happens that with motherhood you discover new and different things that you previously took for granted, has it happened to you too? So you cannot miss the most everyday phrases that have a new meaning for me since I was a mother.
What will children never forget about their parents? If you are thinking about this or that gift, you are wrong, even if it does not seem so at first glance. The little ones, no matter how old they are, remember from their parents those things that mark their path, what makes them happy and makes them laugh and also what has made them feel bad.
Do you know what a custom or habit is? According to the dictionary, it is defined as an action that, after doing it so much, has become part of our routine. There are some that are excellent, such as kissing goodnight, and others that are not so excellent, such as looking at your cell phone instead of talking to your children.